Our Success is in our members who value our strength as a valued community.
Forum Statistics
Posts1,030,915
Topics75,948
Members13,902
Forums65
Posts in last 24hrs5
Most Online14,906
Nov 23rd, 2019
Who's Online Now
25 registered members (6 invisible), 1,473 guests, and262 spiders.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Social Media : Follow Us


Popular Topics(Views 7days)
New General Forums
Newbie here saying hello
by Omdrolf. 24th Jul 2021 10:14pm
Long time no speak
by SoundLad. 11th Jul 2021 6:51pm
Agro ( Funny )
by GaryFromWirral. 9th Jul 2021 7:19pm
How do I post old photo?
by Longnails. 7th Jul 2021 11:38am
New Wirral History
Assistance required: 19th Century Grange Ward
by ByrneJB. 18th Jul 2021 8:53pm
Pictures of Liverpool buildings being constructed
by mikeeb. 18th Jul 2021 12:10pm
Peel Street (Tranmere)
by mb2496. 31st Dec 2011 12:35am
Calday Grange Grammar For Boys, West Kirby
by . 10th Jun 2007 10:49pm
Forum Tips
Photo Gallery Forums
New Brighton Artwork
Boaty McBoatface takes shape
Topic Replies
Aiwa XC300 CD + remote working well £35
by montyz. 26th Jul 2021 3:40pm
Akai AP-B21 Record Player/Turntable solid £45
by montyz. 26th Jul 2021 3:27pm
Trio 2x30 watt hifi amp with phono in £45
by montyz. 26th Jul 2021 3:24pm
Mass Exodus
by BultacoAstro. 26th Jul 2021 11:20am
What song are you listening to?
by BultacoAstro. 26th Jul 2021 9:44am
XMA Computer/Screen/Spea
ker's/Cables/Manual

by BultacoAstro. 25th Jul 2021 11:19am
Sky Box with Control And Sky Satellite Dish
by BultacoAstro. 25th Jul 2021 10:46am
Domonic Cummings
by casper. 25th Jul 2021 8:33am
Newbie here saying hello
by Salmon. 25th Jul 2021 7:43am
July
M T W T F S S
1 2 3 4
5 6 7 8 9 10 11
12 13 14 15 16 17 18
19 20 21 22 23 24 25
26 27 28 29 30 31
Recent Posts : What's On ?
Previous Topic
Next Topic
Print Topic
Rate Topic
Domestic Abuse #867062
27th Mar 2014 9:12am
27th Mar 2014 9:12am
Joined: Jun 2011
Posts: 17,672
Wirral
G
granny Offline OP
Wiki Master
granny  Offline OP
Wiki Master
G
Joined: Jun 2011
Posts: 17,672
Wirral
I hope nobody thinks this subject should not be posted on Wiki, but I feel it is of the greatest importance and needs to be brought to the attention of everyone.

The below article is on the BBC news site this morning and the figures are quite staggering.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-26758565

What I do not understand is, how can anyone in such a vulnerable position of threats call for help and who to? The police don't involve themselves unless the crime has happened anyway. There would appear to be no current contact number available for anyone who was in fear for themselves or children. I know the council have a number for them contacting an official body, but that could be more damaging. e.g. A person is frightened for their own safety. The perpetrator goes to the shops, the victim phones a helpline, the perpetrator comes home, the helpline return the call to the victim, the victim gets a battering because they have been found out.
Is that a possible scenario? Quite often the perpetrator have managed to cut off all contact between the victim and friends and family. Why is there not a manned helpline 24/7 that can connect these poor people almost immediately, so that in the brief window of opportunity, they can at least manage to open a door for themselves and anyone else it affects.
Sorry, but this type of crime physical and mental abuse caused by bullies, is something I feel VERY strongly about.


Last edited by granny; 27th Mar 2014 9:22am.

Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it. Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together. All things connect.
~Chief Seattle
Google Ads
Re: Domestic Abuse [Re: granny] #867068
27th Mar 2014 9:44am
27th Mar 2014 9:44am

P
Pinzgauer
Unregistered
Pinzgauer
Unregistered
P


I heard the piece about this on R4 this morning. Got agree with you Granny on your concerns about the whole sketch. It seems to be a very low priority as far the the police are concerned. It seems they run a mile from DV cases (Domestic violence).

One woman had an interviewing policeman "chance his hand" shall we say, whilst other members of the family were out of the room ! FFS! I'm sure/I hope that it's an extreme case, but it seems to highlight the fact that DV is best walked away from.

Just my 2d worth.

Re: Domestic Abuse [Re: granny] #867081
27th Mar 2014 11:29am
27th Mar 2014 11:29am
Joined: Jun 2011
Posts: 17,672
Wirral
G
granny Offline OP
Wiki Master
granny  Offline OP
Wiki Master
G
Joined: Jun 2011
Posts: 17,672
Wirral
Have just found this Number:
24 hour HELPLINE
0151 643 9766


http://www.wirralwomensrefuge.co.uk/

The Councils Number:

Tel: (0151) 606 5442 Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm (?)

https://www.wirral.gov.uk/my-services/community-and-living/community-safety/domestic-violence

If you are pregnant or think that you might be, you can be additionally supported by a Midwife who is experienced in working with survivors of domestic abuse. They can support you with advice and guidance throughout your pregnancy. They can be contacted through the Family Safety Unit or direct at Arrowe Park Hospital on 0151 488 7782.

Support

This section offers links to both local and national support services. Please feel free to suggest any useful services you have encountered.

Support for...

Alcohol - WHAT? Is the homepage for Wirral Alcohol Service if you feel your drinking is getting out of control or want advice regarding a friend or family member.

Bereavement - CRUSE can provide bereavement counselling and support when you are grieving.

Carers - WIRED Offering help and support to anyone looking after a friend, relative or child due to their health condition.

Child Abuse - If you are, or you suspect someone is being abused but feel unable to talk to anyone about it; Childline offers valuable help and support.

Contraception & Sexual Health - Sexual Health Wirral offer confidential advice and treatment in all aspects of sexual health. Clinics are spread throughout Wirral with convenient opening times.

Domestic Violence - The Wirral Family Safety Unit (0151 606 5442) can provide help and advice for anyone affected by domestic violence. Wirral Women and Childrens Aid run a refuge,whilst the Zero Centre offers a drop-in service for women and children.

Drugs - Recovery Wirral website has a list of contact numbers for support groups, local drug services, harm reduction pharmacies and advice lines for anyone affected by drug misuse. WirralDAAT is the website for the local drug service.

Relationships - Relate specialise in relationship, family counselling and mediation.

Old Age - AgeUK offers advice and support to the elderly and their carers includes benefits advice, care, help and access to local support.

http://www.westwirralgrouppractice.nhs.uk/healthadvicesupport/support.html



Last edited by granny; 27th Mar 2014 11:30am.

Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it. Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together. All things connect.
~Chief Seattle
Re: Domestic Abuse [Re: granny] #867088
27th Mar 2014 1:19pm
27th Mar 2014 1:19pm
Joined: Jul 2011
Posts: 3,621
Wirral
V
venice Offline

Forum Guardian
venice  Offline

Forum Guardian
V
Joined: Jul 2011
Posts: 3,621
Wirral
Good one Granny. Very useful reference guide.

Re: Domestic Abuse [Re: venice] #867109
27th Mar 2014 5:25pm
27th Mar 2014 5:25pm
Joined: Jul 2011
Posts: 1,390
Wirral
Moonstar Offline

Forum Addict
Moonstar  Offline

Forum Addict
Joined: Jul 2011
Posts: 1,390
Wirral
Getting help in an abusive situation is never going to be easy or simple. The Police can, of course, step in but need an evidenced case to take to Court.

Often the abused person goes back to the situation, perhaps thinking things will be better.

If there are children, matters become even more complicated.

Personally, if it was a bloke doing the abusing, he should have his knackers nicked and a spell of hard labour - preferably in Russia for life.

If a woman is the abuser then scrubbing floors in Russia for life would be adequate.

Re: Domestic Abuse [Re: granny] #867155
27th Mar 2014 7:29pm
27th Mar 2014 7:29pm
Joined: Aug 2008
Posts: 19,446
Here.
RUDEBOX Offline
Wiki Master
RUDEBOX  Offline
Wiki Master
Joined: Aug 2008
Posts: 19,446
Here.
Come on people - one click for 10,000 to keep Wirral's domestci abuse service going!! You can vote every single day!
https://sblb.intuit.com/uk/Zero-Centre-Merseyside/9666/gb


Mia Mabel

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh! Jer-e-my Cor-byn


Moderated by  Mod 

Random Wirral Images

Click to View Topic.
Newest Topics
Mass Exodus
by BultacoAstro. 26th Jul 2021 11:20am
Newbie here saying hello
by Omdrolf. 24th Jul 2021 10:14pm
Leather Sofa Upholsterer
by Omdrolf. 23rd Jul 2021 8:59pm
Domonic Cummings
by mikeeb. 22nd Jul 2021 5:53pm
Fishing in Arrowe park
by swany1965. 20th Jul 2021 11:59pm
For Sale & Free
Aiwa XC300 CD + remote working well £35
by montyz. 26th Jul 2021 3:40pm
Akai AP-B21 Record Player/Turntable solid £45
by montyz. 26th Jul 2021 3:27pm
Trio 2x30 watt hifi amp with phono in £45
by montyz. 26th Jul 2021 3:24pm
XMA Computer/Screen/Spea
ker's/Cables/Manual

by BultacoAstro. 25th Jul 2021 11:06am
Sky Box with Control And Sky Satellite Dish
by BultacoAstro. 25th Jul 2021 10:46am
Member Spotlight
BandyCoot
BandyCoot
Birkenhead
Posts: 5,440
Joined: December 2008
Show All Member Profiles 
Newest Members
DuaneC, joeltherienz, ACLDN, Livarchy, ByrneJB
13902 Registered Users
Today's Birthdays
No Birthdays
New Wirral Info
Leather Sofa Upholsterer
by Omdrolf. 23rd Jul 2021 8:59pm
Oliver Place
by Chrishenson1. 14th Jul 2021 10:07pm
Lamp-post replacement daftness
by Greenwood. 7th Jul 2021 12:24pm
Hilbre Island during WW2
by Peter_exWirral. 30th Jun 2021 11:49am
Porch fitters
by gray153. 29th Jun 2021 12:53pm
News : New Topics
Mass Exodus
by BultacoAstro. 26th Jul 2021 11:20am
Domonic Cummings
by mikeeb. 22nd Jul 2021 5:53pm
Colin pitchfork
by cools. 7th Jun 2021 9:36pm
New Enthusiast Forums
Fishing in Arrowe park
by swany1965. 20th Jul 2021 11:59pm
New F1 sprint race
by mikeeb. 17th Jul 2021 8:14am
Is anybody alive out there ?
by Nathanplatt. 9th Jul 2021 5:11pm
Bultaco pursang
by Bultaco. 13th Mar 2019 12:43pm
Inside The Blood Tub UE - ( Last ever Pictures )
by hoseman. 10th May 2009 1:49pm
Popular Topics(Views 24hrs)
Wirral Sunrise Sunset
Sunrise Mon 5:19am
Sunset Mon 9:18pm
Local Time Mon 5:10pm
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.6.1.1