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A LIVERPOOL dad was jailed for subjecting his 12-year-old son to a catalogue of threats and violence at a holiday camp. The 39-year-old repeatedly threatened to stab the terrified youngster in front of shocked guests and staff at Pontins in Prestatyn, north Wales. On July 12, a canteen supervisor saw the family enter the restaurant as the dad shouted “you f****** stupid b******….” at the boy before dragging him towards the food aisle. The next morning a restaurant assistant watched as he called his son “a stupid f****** t***’ before putting him in a headlock and punching his head twice. Later, the dad shouted at the boy, ‘You little f******* t***, I’ll knife you, you b******!”, as the youngster was lifted off his feet while his dad wrapped his arm around his neck and yanked his head back and punched his head up to five times, prompting him to spill his orange and cereal. The enraged 39-year-old blasted: “You little f****** b******, look what you’ve done. I’ll f****** knife you, I f****** hate you!”, as he grabbed him and swung him around, punching and elbowing him. Judge Dafydd Hughes told the dad he was a bully and jailed him for 40 weeks at Mold Crown Court. The defendant and child cannot be named for legal reasons. After watching the abuse, one female member of staff broke down and cried before taking the rest of the day off A Pontins manager spoke to the dad, and when he left he was heard saying to his son: “I’ve had that f****** man over here. If he asks you, you say nothing.” Police were alerted and when officers arrived, the dad told them: “All I’ve done is told him to quieten down.” Yesterday, the Liverpool dad admitted five charges of child cruelty on or around July 12. Judge Hughes told the defendant that he had given his family an abysmal holiday. He added: “You behaved in a deplorable manner towards your son, in public,” asking how he would behave towards him in private. Matthew Curtis, defending, said that his client was of previous good character and himself had learning difficulties. THE ECHO
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Thats disgusting!!! There was a chance for the judge to set an example of the type of punishment given for cruelty to children yet he hands out a 40 week sentence PATHETIC. If the father is happy to show this level of cruelty in public i hate to imagine what goes on behind closed doors. How many children have to die at the hands of their parents before sentences are increased!!!!
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What a horrible thing to happen for both the boy and the other people who were on holiday. Hope he gets what he deserves in jail!
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Posted by a friend elsewhere..... Another great day! Been to the gym, had a nice hot shower and I've just picked up a bottle of home brew off a neighbour for this afternoon. I've got a few spliffs rolled up for the XBox tournament with the lads, after which I'll muck about online with some porn and gambling sites...Damn, I love prison!
Says it all really. Sentences like this make me sick. Where is the deterrent?
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Posted by a friend elsewhere..... Another great day! Been to the gym, had a nice hot shower and I've just picked up a bottle of home brew off a neighbour for this afternoon. I've got a few spliffs rolled up for the XBox tournament with the lads, after which I'll muck about online with some porn and gambling sites...Damn, I love prison!
Says it all really. Sentences like this make me sick. Where is the deterrent? Sad but so true.
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time bring back lynch mobs and a proper punishment for these scumbags. i supose that will upset the do gooders!!
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Its sentences like this that help to promote vigilantism.
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What's even more annoying is the seriousness of the offence but "daddy dearest" has his identity protected.
An innocent person falsely accused of rape doesn't get this level of protection, why should a monster like this?
His identity should be made public so that other members of the public can report any further concerns, its in the public's and child's interests to have this guy named and shamed.
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yes and what happens in the future? will he change?no he will still abuse his family, and if he does this in public what happens behind closed doors? it scares me to think of what someone like him is capable of.
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The trouble with revealing the parents identity is that it would simply lead to the victims identity (his son), and that would be completely unacceptable.
In this instance, while the father should be named and shamed, I think the court made the right decision in not disclosing the parents name as it protects the child. Its just the sentence handed down that is completely unacceptable.
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That unfortunately is absolutely right, as ever the victim would suffer more than the perpitrator, where are we going wrong in the uk? should we take our lead from other countries? or would that be to radical?.
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I think that we as a country have now gone so far the wrong way that pretty much anything would now be considered too radical.
The country has been dragged into a politically correct swamp and it will take a huge movement to get it turned around. Unfortunately the do-gooders have loud voices and louder supporters. Anyone who opposes them is now seen as a trouble causer.
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Hopefully the social services will take on board what has happened and be all over the family like a rash to monitor the situation, they have a few weeks to get the confidence of the child and hopefully the mother before he is released.
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I think that we as a country have now gone so far the wrong way that pretty much anything would now be considered too radical.
The country has been dragged into a politically correct swamp and it will take a huge movement to get it turned around. Unfortunately the do-gooders have loud voices and louder supporters. Anyone who opposes them is now seen as a trouble causer. I agree there, We are too soft in this country.
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What's even more annoying is the seriousness of the offence but "daddy dearest" has his identity protected.
An innocent person falsely accused of rape doesn't get this level of protection, why should a monster like this?
His identity should be made public so that other members of the public can report any further concerns, its in the public's and child's interests to have this guy named and shamed.
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i have to say, this is appauling, this guy shouldn`t be allowed around children ever again! that sentence is pathetic! shame on our judges. no doubt about it this guy will be hurt in prison, the guards won`t keep their mouths shut on this guy!
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This is a tricky one, not releasing the fathers name to protect the child i can understand. When i was at school, a girl i knew was sexually assaulted and abused by her father, the judicial system didn't release the names or information but the neighbours did. This made the girls life, the innocent party, a life of misery, other children can be so cruel and yet not understanding the full facts, the family had to leave the area, i can understand the importance in witholding names to protect the innocents.
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Maybe they should put the Mum & Kid(s) in something like a 'Witness Protection Program' so they will no longer be associated with the father's name - then, the father could be named & shamed and not jepopardize anyone...
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Sorry, I just can't see how it protects the child by witholding the fathers name. Supposing the father was prosecuted for an offence outside his own family, would his own child still not have the same problem (whether or not he abused his own child).
Also it opens up the ridiculous possibility of "plea bargaining" to keep their name quiet.
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Sorry, I just can't see how it protects the child by witholding the fathers name. Supposing the father was prosecuted for an offence outside his own family, would his own child still not have the same problem (whether or not he abused his own child).
Also it opens up the ridiculous possibility of "plea bargaining" to keep their name quiet.
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It protects the child who has been offended against, in the case of the girl i went to school with, it ruined her early life and probably her whole life. I don't know her now, she would not of wanted it known what her father done to her. Had her father committed the same crime with someone else, that would have been bad enough to live with, having had it done to her and it getting out into the open and having to put up with the jibes, bullying and innuendos is a bit different i think.
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Just because the Father's name is not published in newspapers does not mean that it is not known about in the local community - the jungle drums are bound to start rattling, unfortunately sometimes incorrectly and the wrong family get the stick.
I still don't understand how it protects the child, given the choice, most people would say they don't want others to know, but does the attempted secrecy make that much difference in reality? - I very much doubt it, and I would guess not at a fair cost of some monster becoming icognito.
The attempts at secrecy probably worsen the position of the child - other kids find the "secret" and they are bound to taunt. If it was up-front, perhaps there would be more sympathy.
If an innocent person is not allowed to protect their identity, why should a guilty person?
The basis of our legal system is visibility, without visibility its almost meaningless. Justice has got to be seen to be done!
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I have no interest in protecting the anonymity of the guilty but not at the expense of the innocent. If it means the guilty party not being known to the general public, then so be it. Rather that than have a child have a rough passage through their early life. The child does have the option when their older to divulge whats happened to them, should they feel the need.
I agree and have said so in the past that it is wrong to name anyone who has yet to be proven guilty, so why is it wrong to withhold names to protect the innocent victim. I prefer to know justice has been done and a suitable sentence given out, not really interested in names, maybe i would if i wanted to take the law into my own hands, but that is not the case.
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Imagine how the kid feels having his dad tell him he hates him! What a thoroughly nasty person.
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Hope he gets the same treatment while he's doing his porridge. Judge was right, if he behaves like this in public, how the hell does he abuse the child in private?
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Something I have noticed reading this thread. Why are the majority of posts about whether the victim (via the father) should be afforded anonimity, yet few talk about the pathetic sentence handed down.
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The sentence is a bit difficult because it is only effectively ABH, not GBH. These days it is unusual for police to prosecute for ABH, it is only because it is a child in this case.
It would appear that it is also only for one time period that the court is using, any parent that can honestly say they have NEVER lost it with their kids at some point in their life are possibly not parenting enough!
A 40 week prison sentence is a tough penalty, and for what the father is actually charged with, is above what I would have expected.
Don't forget the fall-out effects of this sentence for the whole family, the future earning potential of the father etc.
In reality, the protection agencies will be on the families back, bearing this in mind, for first offence I would have though a warning would have been appropriate - the father then has a clear choice, this may benefit the whole family better than criminalising him.
Second offence - throw away the key or just knee-cap him!
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