i dont really think it matters, the fact is she has cancer which is a horrible ilness to have, weather u like the person or not, its mentally and physically debilitating, i sat at my aunties bedside and watched her slide away, doing my best to keep her comfortable, and make her time as nice as possible... like i said before, she had cervical cancer, had her womb removed and was given the all clear, to be told "oh, its come back", at which point my auntie was so tired, she had no more fight left,and ended up ridled with the disease, in a coma like state, unable to do anything for herself.... i was 23, 10 years ago when this happened and it still tears me apart to think about it now, i can still see it clear as day.... so jade may be a pain in the arse, but i really dont think even she would do this for dramatic effect/publicity.... she was called by her doctor as it was imperitive she get back to get treatment, otherwise it would be too late, and she would be dead within months..... 3 months(she was told) is a "guess" it could be longer, but if its agressive it could be significantly less, my auntie was told she had at least 6 months to live.... she was dead within 3..... i really pity the poor girl and just hope and pray for her AND especially her poor kids, they have caught this in time... sorry to ramble on...