Thanks to everyone for your suggestions...especially the KFC one!
I like the look of Ness gardens for the ceremony and then on to somewhere informal, not really a Pub
more like a hall, or something??I just want a really great buffet and dancing but nothing too cheesy or run down. Ive got something in my head but I'm probably never goin to get it! Think of english tea party, bunting, cakes, candles, summer evening ..kids able to play outside.I like the idea of being able to go off for a little wander if it gets too much, thats why I like Sheldrakes..but not at their prices!