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#202724 - 1st Feb 2008 5:39pm Mediation
Cali_16v Cali_16v Wiki Guide Registered: 17th May 2004 Posts: 6237 Loc: Birkenhead	Anyone know what mediation is like. Got my first session on tuesday, which i might add i have to pay for cos i don't get legal aid, damn my high wage. just wondered if anyone could give me any info on what to expect, first hand experience as there is only so much a website can tell you. Cheers guys and girls _________________________
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#202725 - 1st Feb 2008 5:41pm Re: Mediation [Re: Cali_16v]
Shane_astra Shane_astra Addict Registered: 23rd Jan 2008 Posts: 298 Loc: Wallasey	have to go there me self in about a week _________________________
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#203081 - 2nd Feb 2008 11:43pm Re: Mediation [Re: Shane_astra]
Mark Mark Wiki Master Registered: 9th Nov 2003 Posts: 14761 Loc: Wirral	Be prepared to snore lol I think i done one years ago, and i heard myself snoring just at the point of going to sleep. I woke up a little read faced but didn't sleep for the hour $;\)$ You may feel more tired afterwards lol i did. Pink Shirts - High Wages i see the connection now. _________________________ www.wikiwirral.co.uk For Sale items are listed on +25 websites Sharing knowledge with members and friends.
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#203082 - 2nd Feb 2008 11:44pm Re: Mediation [Re: Mark]
Mark Mark Wiki Master Registered: 9th Nov 2003 Posts: 14761 Loc: Wirral	p.s is there a reason this is in "Parenting & Families" or would it be more suited in Health ?? _________________________ www.wikiwirral.co.uk For Sale items are listed on +25 websites Sharing knowledge with members and friends.
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#203083 - 2nd Feb 2008 11:45pm Re: Mediation [Re: Mark]
chiccy chiccy chiccy of the chiccyness Forum Addict Registered: 27th Oct 2007 Posts: 2098 Loc: bromborough	mark its mediation not meditation _________________________ Find me on facebook as: Gail Jones Find me on msn as : ibizachic[at]hotmail.com ♥`•.¸♥¸.• ♥¸.•chiccy ♥`•.¸♥¸.• ♥
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#203095 - 3rd Feb 2008 12:11am Re: Mediation [Re: chiccy]
Cali_16v Cali_16v Wiki Guide Registered: 17th May 2004 Posts: 6237 Loc: Birkenhead	mediation - solicitor tells me when i can see my daughter !!!!! _________________________
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#203117 - 3rd Feb 2008 1:49am Re: Mediation [Re: Cali_16v]
Cali_16v Cali_16v Wiki Guide Registered: 17th May 2004 Posts: 6237 Loc: Birkenhead	Wirral Family Law & Mediation Service Allport Lane Precinct Wirral, CH62 7HH 0151 343 3150 That make it clear mark _________________________
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#203118 - 3rd Feb 2008 2:49am Re: Mediation [Re: Cali_16v]
Shane_astra Shane_astra Addict Registered: 23rd Jan 2008 Posts: 298 Loc: Wallasey	thay dont say when u can see her u have to talk to your ex about that av got to go there in about a week 2 sort out seein my daughter. he told me it could go on 4 about an hour an a half an if it dont get sorted then i will have to go back till it is.he said its better than goin to court over. rather go to court than talk to her _________________________
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#203132 - 3rd Feb 2008 11:30am Re: Mediation [Re: Shane_astra]
Cali_16v Cali_16v Wiki Guide Registered: 17th May 2004 Posts: 6237 Loc: Birkenhead	i know mate it's 3-4 meetings which i have to pay for, annoys me i have to pay someone to tell me when i can see my daughter. I have threatened court but the cost would kill me, mediation is £180 per hour plus VAT of which we pay half each, she gets legal aid so it's free for her. so i', paying £90 per hour and it takes and hour and half per session. _________________________
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#203139 - 3rd Feb 2008 11:57am Re: Mediation [Re: chiccy]
Mark Mark Wiki Master Registered: 9th Nov 2003 Posts: 14761 Loc: Wirral	Originally Posted By: chiccy mark its mediation not meditation O bollox i'm so tired and ill. WOW That's so wrong. I'm amazed that you cant get legal aid? I say that because my view (Maybe not right) but why should the cost of what ever be the deciding factor in seeing your child or not. I know it can be an expensive long haul. £4,500 and the rest it cost a relative through family courts, and his ex got all the legal aid she wanted and Barristers too. £180 per Hour Do you get fed there? Do you get a bathrobe you can take with you... What do you get for £180 then ?? Never been, but my advice for that kind of money dont storm out in the first 5 mins.... I am SHOCKED truly SHOCKED _________________________ www.wikiwirral.co.uk For Sale items are listed on +25 websites Sharing knowledge with members and friends.
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#203165 - 3rd Feb 2008 12:22pm Re: Mediation [Re: Mark]
Cali_16v Cali_16v Wiki Guide Registered: 17th May 2004 Posts: 6237 Loc: Birkenhead	I know got a feeling i'm going to want to storm out. Quote: Mediation ...an attempt to bring about a peaceful settlement or compromise between disputants through the objective intervention of a neutral party. Family Mediation Accreditation Scheme Mediation involves a trained, neutral, impartial third-party using special skills to resolve a dispute, whether or not the parties have already commenced litigation. Mediation differs from litigation and arbitration, in which a third-party (the judge or arbitrator) makes a binding decision about a dispute and informs the parties of it. The Family Mediation Accreditation Scheme's purpose is to ensure that the legal profession and the public can easily identify solicitors and legal executives who provide mediation services in family and matrimonial disputes. Family mediators may specialise in either children-only or financial-only mediation. However, scheme members have an awareness and knowledge of all family mediation issues. Only solicitors and legal executives (ie Fellows of the Institute of Legal Executives, or FILEXs) who meet the SRA's exacting requirements are permitted to join the scheme. When you see the Family Mediation Accreditation Scheme logo, you'll know that the practitioner's skills, knowledge and experience have been rigorously and independently assessed. _________________________
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#203187 - 3rd Feb 2008 2:14pm Re: Mediation [Re: Cali_16v]
Mark Mark Wiki Master Registered: 9th Nov 2003 Posts: 14761 Loc: Wirral	For £20 i will bang your heads together... Reading between the lines there, from your quote i'm seeing the words RIP OFF. I hope it works out mate. Do you pay this up front the £180 or can you pay weekly as in £2 per week until the child is 18 ??? _________________________ www.wikiwirral.co.uk For Sale items are listed on +25 websites Sharing knowledge with members and friends.
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#203222 - 3rd Feb 2008 3:23pm Re: Mediation [Re: Cali_16v]
Shane_astra Shane_astra Addict Registered: 23rd Jan 2008 Posts: 298 Loc: Wallasey	thay say thay r there to help but the only thing thay help with is makein ya skint in the end. i think £180 is takein the piss for just an hour an a half _________________________
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#203245 - 3rd Feb 2008 5:01pm Re: Mediation [Re: Shane_astra]
MattLFC MattLFC Wiki Master Registered: 14th Aug 2004 Posts: 16161 Loc: Moreton/E.Port	£180 is an absolute rip-off, im sure social service's do the same sort of service for free to help families at war?? Is this a mate of her solicitor's or summit? How come ye can't claim the legal aid, Djibril Cisse claimed legal aid a few times and he was on a reported £48,000 a week after tax lmao! This country sucks! _________________________ My MySpace \| My Bebo \| My Personal Blog \| My YouTube \| My Photography Website
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#203500 - 3rd Feb 2008 11:51pm Re: Mediation [Re: MattLFC]
Cali_16v Cali_16v Wiki Guide Registered: 17th May 2004 Posts: 6237 Loc: Birkenhead	No sorry guys it's180 per hour split between us. advised them of my earnings and bill and they said wouldn't get help _________________________
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#203652 - 4th Feb 2008 2:15pm Re: Mediation [Re: MattLFC]
jonah jonah Forum Guardian Registered: 29th Nov 2006 Posts: 3836 Loc: bromborough, wirral	Originally Posted By: MattLFC £180 is an absolute rip-off, im sure social service's do the same sort of service for free to help families at war?? Is this a mate of her solicitor's or summit? How come ye can't claim the legal aid, Djibril Cisse claimed legal aid a few times and he was on a reported £48,000 a week after tax lmao! This country sucks! he prob got the legal aid as he's foreign ! _________________________ http://www.myspace.com/jonah1974 stevejones74@hotmail.co.uk "WELL MY NUTS ARE HALFWAY UP MY ASS, BUT OTHER THAN THAT I'M PERFECT.....! "
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#203656 - 4th Feb 2008 2:17pm Re: Mediation [Re: jonah]
MattLFC MattLFC Wiki Master Registered: 14th Aug 2004 Posts: 16161 Loc: Moreton/E.Port	Make's ya sick though dunnit, people who are on £50,000 a week after tax can get legal aid, yet normal people like Daz who goe's and works a hard graft like the rest of the majority of the country for relative pittance can't get anything!! _________________________ My MySpace \| My Bebo \| My Personal Blog \| My YouTube \| My Photography Website
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#203658 - 4th Feb 2008 2:19pm Re: Mediation [Re: MattLFC]
jonah jonah Forum Guardian Registered: 29th Nov 2006 Posts: 3836 Loc: bromborough, wirral	change name by deed-poll and he should get it.... _________________________ http://www.myspace.com/jonah1974 stevejones74@hotmail.co.uk "WELL MY NUTS ARE HALFWAY UP MY ASS, BUT OTHER THAN THAT I'M PERFECT.....! "
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#203660 - 4th Feb 2008 2:20pm Re: Mediation [Re: jonah]
MattLFC MattLFC Wiki Master Registered: 14th Aug 2004 Posts: 16161 Loc: Moreton/E.Port	yeah, to summit like Iqbal Abdullah Hussain lol. Disclaimer: I am not racist in the slightest, im against racism and fascism, but it's damn true, if he were an immigrant, he would probably get legal aid!! _________________________ My MySpace \| My Bebo \| My Personal Blog \| My YouTube \| My Photography Website
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#203666 - 4th Feb 2008 3:13pm Re: Mediation [Re: MattLFC]
chiccy chiccy chiccy of the chiccyness Forum Addict Registered: 27th Oct 2007 Posts: 2098 Loc: bromborough	Originally Posted By: MattLFC Iqbal Abdullah Hussain lol.!! LOOOL _________________________ Find me on facebook as: Gail Jones Find me on msn as : ibizachic[at]hotmail.com ♥`•.¸♥¸.• ♥¸.•chiccy ♥`•.¸♥¸.• ♥
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#203687 - 4th Feb 2008 4:38pm Re: Mediation [Re: chiccy]
Mark Mark Wiki Master Registered: 9th Nov 2003 Posts: 14761 Loc: Wirral	£90 an Hour Daz you should also be waited on. A foot massage as you mediate $\:\)$ And the offer of a free drink and biscuits. Its WRONG WRONG WRONG its you that is paying the price as well as your daughter $\:\($ _________________________ www.wikiwirral.co.uk For Sale items are listed on +25 websites Sharing knowledge with members and friends.
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#203707 - 4th Feb 2008 5:15pm Re: Mediation [Re: Mark]
Cali_16v Cali_16v Wiki Guide Registered: 17th May 2004 Posts: 6237 Loc: Birkenhead	less than 24 hours to go. oh well see how it goes this once if not might have to go to court and spend even more money. _________________________
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#203712 - 4th Feb 2008 5:18pm Re: Mediation [Re: Cali_16v]
MattLFC MattLFC Wiki Master Registered: 14th Aug 2004 Posts: 16161 Loc: Moreton/E.Port	well good luck matey, i hope it works out for ye; do you pay before or after the session? if its shit, say your not paying cos it wasnt worth the money, get em on something under the trade descriptions act lol. _________________________ My MySpace \| My Bebo \| My Personal Blog \| My YouTube \| My Photography Website
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#203726 - 4th Feb 2008 5:31pm Re: Mediation [Re: MattLFC]
Mark Mark Wiki Master Registered: 9th Nov 2003 Posts: 14761 Loc: Wirral	Yeh you can meet at my house for £20 and i will give you one drink each, just for the hell of it... Seriously, Good luck, let us know what its like. Enjoy your £90 Butties $\:\)$ _________________________ www.wikiwirral.co.uk For Sale items are listed on +25 websites Sharing knowledge with members and friends.
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#203739 - 4th Feb 2008 5:41pm Re: Mediation [Re: Mark]
MattLFC MattLFC Wiki Master Registered: 14th Aug 2004 Posts: 16161 Loc: Moreton/E.Port	Anyone else up for joining me in starting a mediation clinic... we can make 90 an hour out of this, and we will be undercutting the competition by 50%!!! $\:\)$ _________________________ My MySpace \| My Bebo \| My Personal Blog \| My YouTube \| My Photography Website
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#203741 - 4th Feb 2008 5:44pm Re: Mediation [Re: MattLFC]
Mark Mark Wiki Master Registered: 9th Nov 2003 Posts: 14761 Loc: Wirral	We could stir up the shit, to get repeat business $;\)$ _________________________ www.wikiwirral.co.uk For Sale items are listed on +25 websites Sharing knowledge with members and friends.
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#203745 - 4th Feb 2008 5:48pm Re: Mediation [Re: Mark]
MattLFC MattLFC Wiki Master Registered: 14th Aug 2004 Posts: 16161 Loc: Moreton/E.Port	Originally Posted By: Mark We could stir up the shit, to get repeat business $;\)$ quality idea... $\:D$ _________________________ My MySpace \| My Bebo \| My Personal Blog \| My YouTube \| My Photography Website
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#203773 - 4th Feb 2008 6:05pm Re: Mediation [Re: chiccy]
Cali_16v Cali_16v Wiki Guide Registered: 17th May 2004 Posts: 6237 Loc: Birkenhead	Sorry guys. Quote: Family mediators may specialise in either children-only or financial-only mediation. However, scheme members have an awareness and knowledge of all family mediation issues. Only solicitors and legal executives (ie Fellows of the Institute of Legal Executives, or FILEXs) who meet the SRA's exacting requirements are permitted to join the scheme. When you see the Family Mediation Accreditation Scheme logo, you'll know that the practitioner's skills, knowledge and experience have been rigorously and independently assessed. _________________________
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#203778 - 4th Feb 2008 6:07pm Re: Mediation [Re: Cali_16v]
MattLFC MattLFC Wiki Master Registered: 14th Aug 2004 Posts: 16161 Loc: Moreton/E.Port	Yeah, just like the SIA members are rigourously and indepentdently assessed... this fookin government needs to get real, £180 an hour is a fookin scandel, even on legal aid were all still paying for it _________________________ My MySpace \| My Bebo \| My Personal Blog \| My YouTube \| My Photography Website
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#203827 - 4th Feb 2008 6:17pm Re: Mediation [Re: MattLFC]
Cali_16v Cali_16v Wiki Guide Registered: 17th May 2004 Posts: 6237 Loc: Birkenhead	I want go into how much the fee earners and solicitors charge in our place then.. _________________________
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