Kids being bullied into suicide ? People talking crap ! Please tell me the good things it has done for the world, I am always willing to listen.Oh and we are not technophobes because we don't do facebook.
1. you say kids are being bullied into suicide, once again i come back to my point of the people you actually allow and are 'friends' with on there, only they are the ones you see on your timeline and if you have the necessary security settings then nobody other than friends can message you or post on your timeline.
2. "people talking crap" is a very subjective term, what is "crap" to you may not be to someone else, it all depends on which circles you run in.
3. good things it has done? it has let me keep in touch with friends and family all over the world (Canada, USA, New Zealand, Dubai, Japan) on a regular basis, we can see where each other has been via pictures, share stories, talk more often than we normally would and remain friends despite there being a vast world between us. It has re-united people with old friends, it has re-united people with lost belongings (jewellery etc), you can also meet new people and learn about other cultures because of it. Need i go on?
I think j_demo missed the point, it is about children using it. We her so much about them being bullied and also being groomed by adults posing as children. It is not a safe place for kids.
it's not a safe place if you let it become an unsafe place, i'm not saying watch every click and every keystroke they make, but once in a while, maybe when they're not looking, have a quick browse round, see what's on their timeline and discuss with them options if you don't like something. Punitive approaches won't work, colalborative and open discussions and education is the way forward.
i speak both from experience and where i work (CAMHS) we do a LOT of social media education for 0-16's and their parents and if you want i will happily come to your house and explain why facebook is not the devil.
facebook is just a 'thing' that you can utilise however you want, if you let it get out of hand and allow the wrong people in, then, much like in reality, you have nobody to blame but yourself for how it ends up. Use it properly and only allow people you know/like to message you etc then it's happy days.
of course kids being kids will accept everyone and hormones and stuff people will have arguments and i don't watch "jeremy kyle" with being in work all day but i can imagine 60%+ of the cases mention some form of social media being a catalyst... again, it doesn't make facebook the baddy, it just means that it was used inappropriately.