You just spray the etch primer on and paint over it when its dry, best to use thinners or white spirit to ensure its oil/grease free first.
If you just want to dull the stainless a bit, you can turn it into brushed stainless with wirewool or sandpaper (not sure what grit, I'd probably start around 400 and see what happened)
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